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Post by silver on Aug 18, 2013 21:58:15 GMT -5
You have excuses when someone confronts or challenges - I suppose that's quite human type behavior - the thing is, why bother to speak at all to one another, if all you're going to do is say things like "...that is not you telling someone else what is true or not true?" You can't seem to bring yourself to let down your defenses long enough to take an honest look. It is something I'm planning on working on with myself, to not be so defensive, but yet yes, we all need to have some defenses. Otherwise, we would all get taken advantage of sometimes. What that seems to mean is 'You don't admit that you're just wrong'. Any explanation that doesn't amount to an admission of guilt will be called an excuse, won't it? What do you need me for ? You're perfectly capable of carrying on this 2-way conversation with yourself.
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Post by laughter on Aug 18, 2013 22:05:21 GMT -5
You have excuses when someone confronts or challenges - I suppose that's quite human type behavior - the thing is, why bother to speak at all to one another, if all you're going to do is say things like "...that is not you telling someone else what is true or not true?" You can't seem to bring yourself to let down your defenses long enough to take an honest look. It is something I'm planning on working on with myself, to not be so defensive, but yet yes, we all need to have some defenses. Otherwise, we would all get taken advantage of sometimes. All I'm pointing out is that Tzu is doing exactly what he is telling me to stop doing. I'm not even telling him to stop doing the telling. Geeeeeee ... wonder why she deleted that one so pronto-like .. .. hmmmmm what could possibly be the reason??
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Post by enigma on Aug 18, 2013 22:05:41 GMT -5
Hey, it's fine, you can ignore me because it's old news. I'm fine. It's cool if you don't want to talk about it because I know you're having a good laugh about it. I'm serious. It's fine. I'd say the one thing it is absolutely not for you is fine.
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Post by silver on Aug 18, 2013 22:06:11 GMT -5
All I'm pointing out is that Tzu is doing exactly what he is telling me to stop doing. I'm not even telling him to stop doing the telling. Geeeeeee ... wonder why she deleted that one so pronto-like .. .. hmmmmm what could possibly be the reason?? I'm very ticked off. duh
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Post by silver on Aug 18, 2013 22:06:51 GMT -5
Hey, it's fine, you can ignore me because it's old news. I'm fine. It's cool if you don't want to talk about it because I know you're having a good laugh about it. I'm serious. It's fine. I'd say the one thing it is absolutely not for you is fine. Have it your way.
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Post by enigma on Aug 18, 2013 22:07:24 GMT -5
What that seems to mean is 'You don't admit that you're just wrong'. Any explanation that doesn't amount to an admission of guilt will be called an excuse, won't it? What do you need me for ? You're perfectly capable of carrying on this 2-way conversation with yourself. Yes, that's true. Hehe.
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Post by laughter on Aug 18, 2013 22:08:49 GMT -5
Geeeeeee ... wonder why she deleted that one so pronto-like .. .. hmmmmm what could possibly be the reason?? I'm very ticked off. duh No, actually part of what you wrote was projection and the rest of it was honest and it was all very very revealing.
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Post by enigma on Aug 18, 2013 22:12:24 GMT -5
I'd say the one thing it is absolutely not for you is fine. Have it your way. It's not 'my way', it's just the way it is. If there was any doubt, this dispells it: It's fine. I'm serious. It's okay. It's just your self honesty I was interested in.
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Post by silver on Aug 18, 2013 22:13:06 GMT -5
No, actually part of what you wrote was projection and the rest of it was honest and it was all very very revealing. It won't do any good to ask because you'll get all mysterioso on me.....
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Post by silver on Aug 18, 2013 22:15:01 GMT -5
It's not 'my way', it's just the way it is. If there was any doubt, this dispells it: It's fine. I'm serious. It's okay. It's just your self honesty I was interested in. Merry Christmas.
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Post by laughter on Aug 18, 2013 22:15:29 GMT -5
No, actually part of what you wrote was projection and the rest of it was honest and it was all very very revealing. It won't do any good to ask because you'll get all mysterioso on me..... Hey, a "mutley mystery marathon" ... don't ya' just love alliterations?
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Post by enigma on Aug 18, 2013 22:17:49 GMT -5
It's not 'my way', it's just the way it is. If there was any doubt, this dispells it: It's fine. I'm serious. It's okay. It's just your self honesty I was interested in. Merry Christmas. Are you too ticked off at the moment to tell me what ticked you off? Somebody ignored you? Is it about that?
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Post by silver on Aug 18, 2013 22:21:14 GMT -5
Are you too ticked off at the moment to tell me what ticked you off? Somebody ignored you? Is it about that? Why would you say that?
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Post by silver on Aug 18, 2013 22:22:16 GMT -5
It won't do any good to ask because you'll get all mysterioso on me..... Hey, a "mutley mystery marathon" ... don't ya' just love alliterations? toldjah
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Post by laughter on Aug 18, 2013 22:23:36 GMT -5
Hey, a "mutley mystery marathon" ... don't ya' just love alliterations? toldjah nope. you never asked.
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