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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2013 11:02:45 GMT -5
Whether you believe it or not Laffy, I did not even think of it again after that day, until the exchange where I shared it. What does that have to do with the fact that you used it at a later date? Now we're on day 3 of this, and if you count from the date of the infraction, day 11. My guess is that it's something that I'll potentially never hear the end of from you. What's another word for not letting go of something? The idea you are presenting that I 'stored the PM nastiness away, to use later' paints a picture of someone who was so angry at the time, that she said to herself, "Just wait....I'll save that PM and GET HIM with it sometime down the road." There was nothing like that. In the PM itself, you can see, that I let it go pretty easily. If that would have been the extent of your nastiness, I would have dropped it. It was your more recent nastiness on forum, (you know, the condescending, 'babes, toots, hon-buns, girlies') that initiated the present conversation about you being unfit for mod, and the PM nastiness, was simply mentioned as an aside, in support of that point. It was you, who took that mention of the PM nastiness, to insist on sharing the PM on forum. You can complain that I am not letting this go Laffy, but if you look back at the conversation from beginning to end, you yourself have been fanning the flames....from your insistence upon calling me sexist, belittling names, even after I asked you to stop, to insisting the PM was shared on forum, and now to continuing to complain that "I do not let things go." If you don't like how things are going here, perhaps it's time to look at your part in the equation, and to adjust your behavior accordingly. Everytime you make a post to me, to complain about this, you are engaging in flame fanning. So, if you're going to keep approaching me to make jabs, stop complaining about the fact that it keeps 'going on.'
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Post by laughter on Dec 4, 2013 11:27:01 GMT -5
What does that have to do with the fact that you used it at a later date? Now we're on day 3 of this, and if you count from the date of the infraction, day 11. My guess is that it's something that I'll potentially never hear the end of from you. What's another word for not letting go of something? The idea you are presenting that I 'stored the PM nastiness away, to use later' paints a picture of someone who was so angry at the time, that she said to herself, "Just wait....I'll save that PM and GET HIM with it sometime down the road." That pastel is your brush stroke. The facts are: 1) You didn't mention it publicly when it happened. 2) You used it 10 days later in a debate with me about my conduct. Now, I can see how you might have read that brush stroke in with my use of the word vindictiveness, but that's pretty much a reference to the content in your self-contradictory jihad in the thread about Peace: ie, how you've made use of the incident, not that you made use of it to begin with. You have a point in that I could have been more clear about what I found to be vindictive (which I just did), when I used the word. To be clear now, it is not just that you used the incident, it is in the way that you used it. There was nothing like that. In the PM itself, you can see, that I let it go pretty easily. If that would have been the extent of your nastiness, I would have dropped it.If's and buts and fruits and nuts .... what's another word for not dropping something? ... when something sticks to your hand? It was your more recent nastiness on forum, (you know, the condescending, 'babes, toots, hon-buns, girlies') that initiated the present conversation about you being unfit for mod, and the PM nastiness, was simply mentioned as an aside, in support of that point. It was you, who took that mention of the PM nastiness, to insist on sharing the PM on forum. Oh, you expected me to just let you cherry pick around the edges indefinitely hun'? Sorry, not my style. Not the way I deal with vindictiveness. You can complain that I am not letting this go Laffy, but if you look back at the conversation from beginning to end, you yourself have been fanning the flames....from your insistence upon calling me sexist, belittling names, even after I asked you to stop, to insisting the PM was shared on forum, and now to continuing to complain that "I do not let things go." If you don't like how things are going here, perhaps it's time to look at your part in the equation, and to adjust your behavior accordingly. Everytime you make a post to me, to complain about this, you are engaging in flame fanning. So, if you're going to keep approaching me to make jabs, stop complaining about the fact that it keeps 'going on.' You took this as a complaint? No, no, no babe ... that's me painting a picture of you. Things are going just fine with that particular work of art, thanks for your concern though. This is likely to bring us into day 4. Easily. You are clearly the injured party here, right? What is another word for not letting something go?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2013 13:50:47 GMT -5
You are clearly the injured party here, right? I'd say the continued use of derogatory address speaks to who's experiencing the greater sense of injury. And I guess really, that's what's at the bottom of my interest in discussing the need for some here to be nasty and mock and fling poo. As I see it, Those like yourself, who engage in that behavior, somehow, feel 'injured' when another voices a lack of agreement regarding their spiritual beliefs and understandings. The mocking and ridicule is just a way to try to alleviate that sense of injury through lashing out to try to 'hurt' the other.
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Post by laughter on Dec 4, 2013 17:13:51 GMT -5
You are clearly the injured party here, right? I'd say the continued use of derogatory address speaks to who's experiencing the greater sense of injury. And I guess really, that's what's at the bottom of my interest in discussing the need for some here to be nasty and mock and fling poo. As I see it, Those like yourself, who engage in that behavior, somehow, feel 'injured' when another voices a lack of agreement regarding their spiritual beliefs and understandings. The mocking and ridicule is just a way to try to alleviate that sense of injury through lashing out to try to 'hurt' the other. Ah yes, you continue your moonlighting as a mind reader from your day job as a psychic. See now, when you take yourself that seriously, the comic opportunity you present is just too easy, too low hanging, too too precious, to resist (-- cue Tzu' for a "lack of control" comment --).
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2013 17:32:27 GMT -5
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Post by laughter on Dec 4, 2013 17:33:48 GMT -5
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