|
Post by amit on Jun 21, 2013 1:56:27 GMT -5
To all, The first question is a request for a personal reflection, your view of the sort of person you are. For example do you have any defenses? How would you describe them? What sort of experiences do you believe led to the construction of those defenses? The second question asks how the reply to the first affects your behaviour on this forum. amit I invite you to lead by example. Hi topology, I don't know you or others here and this is not a supportive place to do as you ask. Not all here treat each other with care. It would be foolish to do as you ask under those circumstances. Is that why you are not doing it? My question was directed to those who don't care about those considerations and feel that it is useful to get personal. Lets see how many of them are willing when it is there character under the spotlight. Not many I suspect. amit
|
|
|
Post by Reefs on Jun 21, 2013 3:24:50 GMT -5
As a response to those who call for openness here, in particular those who regard getting personal as useful, the question is posed. Why is your character like it is? How and why does it behave as it does on this forum? amit You character is in your birth chart. You can't get rid of it. That's why Niz was never meek and Ramana never screaming.
|
|
|
Post by amit on Jun 21, 2013 3:53:00 GMT -5
As a response to those who call for openness here, in particular those who regard getting personal as useful, the question is posed. Why is your character like it is? How and why does it behave as it does on this forum? amit You character is in your birth chart. You can't get rid of it. That's why Niz was never meek and Ramana never screaming. Hi reefs, "The first question is a request for a personal reflection, your view of the sort of person you are. For example do you have any defenses? How would you describe them? What sort of experiences do you believe led to the construction of those defenses? The second question asks how the reply to the first affects your behaviour on this forum." amit
|
|
|
Post by Reefs on Jun 21, 2013 3:55:43 GMT -5
You character is in your birth chart. You can't get rid of it. That's why Niz was never meek and Ramana never screaming. Hi reefs, "The first question is a request for a personal reflection, your view of the sort of person you are. For example do you have any defenses? How would you describe them? What sort of experiences do you believe led to the construction of those defenses? The second question asks how the reply to the first affects your behaviour on this forum." amit Okay, I see. Well, as I already said, it's in the chart. So if I would send you my chart and you would be able to read it, then you would know everything about my defenses and behavior.
|
|
|
Post by amit on Jun 21, 2013 4:13:55 GMT -5
Hi reefs, "The first question is a request for a personal reflection, your view of the sort of person you are. For example do you have any defenses? How would you describe them? What sort of experiences do you believe led to the construction of those defenses? The second question asks how the reply to the first affects your behaviour on this forum." amit Okay, I see. Well, as I already said, it's in the chart. So if I would send you my chart and you would be able to read it, then you would know everything about my defenses and behavior. Hi reefs, A summary here would do so we all could read it. amit
|
|
|
Post by laughter on Jun 21, 2013 4:30:24 GMT -5
Okay, I see. Well, as I already said, it's in the chart. So if I would send you my chart and you would be able to read it, then you would know everything about my defenses and behavior. Hi reefs, A summary here would do so we all could read it. amit yeah reefs, kick in yer social security number whiler yas ats it too k'?
|
|
|
Post by amit on Jun 21, 2013 4:42:09 GMT -5
Hi reefs, A summary here would do so we all could read it. amit yeah reefs, kick in yer social security number whiler yas ats it too k'? hi laughter, How about you, are you into this getting personal stuff as a useful enquiry? amit
|
|
|
Post by amit on Jun 21, 2013 4:45:21 GMT -5
yeah reefs, kick in yer social security number whiler yas ats it too k'? hi laughter, How about you, are you into this getting personal stuff as a useful enquiry? amit PS. I mean on forums like this. amit
|
|
|
Post by laughter on Jun 21, 2013 4:56:17 GMT -5
hi laughter, How about you, are you into this getting personal stuff as a useful enquiry? amit PS. I mean on forums like this. amit I very often do when I see a conversation getting to a point where sharing experience can be useful in facilitating it. Some folks don't but I don't put much stock in that either way. It's just personality. Just certain residual patterns that hang around. Bodies are wired with genes and the languages of those around you when you are young are what they are.
|
|
Deleted
Deleted Member
Posts: 0
|
Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2013 5:02:27 GMT -5
You character is in your birth chart. You can't get rid of it. That's why Niz was never meek and Ramana never screaming. Hi reefs, "The first question is a request for a personal reflection, your view of the sort of person you are. For example do you have any defenses? How would you describe them? What sort of experiences do you believe led to the construction of those defenses? The second question asks how the reply to the first affects your behaviour on this forum." amit Haha.....utterly brilliant approach to this Amit So many here go on and on answering these kind of questions about "other" people, usually quite unsolicited, and without any compassion or consideration, while absolutely refusing to answer the same questions about themselves. This is a very eloquent approach that you are taking in pointing out how useless these personal commentaries are, and how uncomfortable they may be making the other person feel when someone asnwers these question "about you" instead of about themselves......wonderful Amit...I'm truelly impressed... Whenever it gets ugly here Somebody will tell another exactly what kind of person they think the other is, by pointing out that they have defenses, then defining those defenses for the other person, then defining what they believe created those defenses in the other person, and then defining how the other persons defenses affect their behavior on the forum....then the person that was on the receiving end of all this turns around and does the same thing back....until this forum is no longer a place of exploration, but rather, a place where most folks are: Publically announcing their view of everyone else's character, defenses, and reasons for their forum behavior....and yet, those same people, that are so willing to point out other folks flaws, without compassion or consideration for that person, will not "reveal" the same "information" about themselves, that they are so willing to splatter all over the forum about others. Guys, and Gals, look at the questions that Amit asked, and earnestly look at how uncomfortable it would make you feel to answer those.....and then look how often you may be answering those same questions in an utterly discompassionate way about others here. Some even troll through thousands of posts to answer those questions about others and prove their points, but those same people run from the spotlight that they shine on others. Could it be possible to do some exploration around here that does not include these personal assessments, unless it is a personal assessment that we have made about ourselves and are offering for forum review and discussion?
|
|
|
Post by amit on Jun 21, 2013 5:14:27 GMT -5
To all,
Going up the mountains for a few days playing music with friends. Doubt I'll get near a computer or be in any condition to use one. You know what can happen when you start having too much fun:)
Look forward to reading your comments and replies when I get back on Monday.
amit
|
|
Deleted
Deleted Member
Posts: 0
|
Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2013 5:25:24 GMT -5
Hi reefs, "The first question is a request for a personal reflection, your view of the sort of person you are. For example do you have any defenses? How would you describe them? What sort of experiences do you believe led to the construction of those defenses? The second question asks how the reply to the first affects your behaviour on this forum." amit Okay, I see. Well, as I already said, it's in the chart. So if I would send you my chart and you would be able to read it, then you would know everything about my defenses and behavior. More random trolling? I would normally never argue for someone to be banned from a forum, exclusion does not suite me....but it seems that you spend so much energy pointing out what you perceive to be other people's flaws, or, as in the case of this post, outright trolling people....that you make a strong case as to why a ban can be useful. You just spend too much time trying to provoke people instead of communicating with them....in a forum that has just gotten ugly with personal assessments and provocation, instead of collegial exploration, you are the worst offender, and usually instigator of the bad tone.....you intentionally provoke and provoke whomever you can, and then when you are successful you gloat and point a finger at the person that you had been provoking as if to say: AHA! You are caught! So unfortunately, as you seem to be the primary initiator, and supporter of most of the ugliness around here, I gotta say that I'd actually like to see you banned for a bit....you just to involved with every bit of ugliness that goes on in this forum, and by ugliness, I mean this crazy perfusion of personal assessment posts that get flung at each other like weapons here. Banning you would go a long way toward "deweaponizing" this place lol
|
|
Deleted
Deleted Member
Posts: 0
|
Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2013 5:26:16 GMT -5
To all, Going up the mountains for a few days playing music with friends. Doubt I'll get near a computer or be in any condition to use one. You know what can happen when you start having too much fun:) Look forward to reading your comments and replies when I get back on Monday. amit have a joyous weekend Amit
|
|
|
Post by ???????? ???????????? on Jun 21, 2013 6:14:46 GMT -5
Agreed. Their way basically is "show me yours, but I won't show you mine, because I don't want you to get too excited", basic intuition already tells us to stay far away from such perverts.
|
|
|
Post by topology on Jun 21, 2013 6:56:13 GMT -5
Agreed. Their way basically is "show me yours, but I won't show you mine, because I don't want you to get too excited", basic intuition already tells us to stay far away from such perverts. Who are youcalling a pervert, Bambi?
|
|